I have been thinking recently of the language of love, I think that it is truly a selfish language. It is based on I find this person attractive, I love them, I like this about them. I like it when them do this etc...

I found it funny that in love something which is about loving other people and about sharing yourself with them our whole vocab that we associate with it is entirely selfish. In some ways this is weird but I guess that In every relationship we have to have decided that yes I do love this person and out of that personal expression have our unselfish response of love which is all about caring for and serving the other person.